English to Portuguese Art/Literary Religion

Most of the assessments we do are outward. We are assessing others and
determining what kind of friends we actually want. External assessment isn’t evil.
It is one of the most important things we can do to make sure we are stewarding our lives properly.
It’s what we must do if we want our lives to be a gift that adds value to the lives of others.
However, I think living with relational intelligence isn’t just about assessing other relationships;
it’s also about assessing ourselves. Andy Stanley, in a message on singleness,
posed this self-reflective question: “Are you who the person you are looking for is looking for?”
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Pessoas queridas:
antes que perguntem, o que vem antes e depois não tem nada a ver com essa palavra.
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Pode ser singeleza, solteirice e muitas outras cositas.
Alguém arrisca algum lance?
Tks a lot.