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English term or phrase:
grounding
Spanish translation:
(necesitan tiempo para reflexionar y) consolidarse
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Rosa Paredes
May 1, 2009 23:31
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English term
grounding
English to Spanish
Social Sciences
Psychology
marital and sexual therapy
Well-differentiated couples escape the seductive pull of the comfort cycle and periodically venture into the outer circle. For them, the comfort cycle plays an entirely different role: they re-enter the comfort cycle to digest and integrate the changes and gains of the growth cycle. The safe harbor of the comfort circle makes the growth cycle seem like a quest rather than survival training. The challenge of the growth cycle makes the comfort cycle seem like rest and relaxation rather than hiding out. Other-validation and other-soothing occur, but spouses are less dependent on it. A memorable night of profoundly intimate sex, lying quietly in bed with less anxiety and more connection than either partner had ever thought possible, is a powerful lesson in how the growth cycle fuels the comfort cycle rather than replaces it.
No couple can maintain a marriage solely in the growth cycle—those who try burn out quickly. True, highly differentiated people don’t see the outer circle as being frightening, as do emotionally fused couples, and they enter it more readily. But even they need time for reflection and grounding. Relationships that are constant adventures into the unknown or perpetually involved in conflict resolution don’t thrive or develop depth—nor do their participants. You can’t be “working on your relationship” every moment. There must also be positive interactions around familiar shared daily events and tasks of living, and catching up on the latest news in the world. The growth cycle produces positive shared experiences, the shared joy of resolving difficult issues, and the excitement of expanding intimacy and eroticism—but we also need the familiar and routine.
No couple can maintain a marriage solely in the growth cycle—those who try burn out quickly. True, highly differentiated people don’t see the outer circle as being frightening, as do emotionally fused couples, and they enter it more readily. But even they need time for reflection and grounding. Relationships that are constant adventures into the unknown or perpetually involved in conflict resolution don’t thrive or develop depth—nor do their participants. You can’t be “working on your relationship” every moment. There must also be positive interactions around familiar shared daily events and tasks of living, and catching up on the latest news in the world. The growth cycle produces positive shared experiences, the shared joy of resolving difficult issues, and the excitement of expanding intimacy and eroticism—but we also need the familiar and routine.
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May 5, 2009 23:00: Rosa Paredes changed "Edited KOG entry" from "<a href="/profile/52429">Michael Powers (PhD)'s</a> old entry - "grounding"" to ""(necesitan tiempo para reflexionar y) consolidarse""
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(necesitan tiempo para reflexionar y) consolidarse
consolidarse o consolidar la relación
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Comment: "Varias respuestas acertadas otra vez. Gracias por la ayuda. - Mike :)"
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6 mins
consolidación, cimentación
Ref.: Gran Diccionario Oxford eng-sp
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asentamiento / asimilación
espero te sirva
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cimentarse
Ninguna pareja puede mantener un matrimonio únicamente en el ciclo de crecimiento —aquellas que tratan de fundirse rápidamente. La verdad es que las personas muy diferenciadas no ven el círculo externo como aterrador, como lo hacen las parejas emocionalmente fusionadas, e ingresan en él más fácilmente. Pero hasta ellas necesitan tiempo para reflexionar y cimentarse. Las relaciones que se aventuran constantemente en lo desconocido o están permanentemente involucradas en la resolución de conflictos, no prosperan ni desarrollan profundidad —ni lo hacen sus participantes.
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(necesitan tiempo para reflexionar y) asentarse
En este contexto prefiero la imagen de asentarse y el uso del infinitivo.
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