Feb 25, 2005 13:25
19 yrs ago
English term

I'd have much rather you didn't say that

English Art/Literary Poetry & Literature Fiction
A woman hears a hint to a bad news and says:
'I'd have much rather you didn't say that'

Discussion

Tony M Feb 25, 2005:
It's not JUST 'poor' grammar; this is very accurately observed spoken language, of a certain educational class and period, which the author has (I believe) used very deliberately to tell us more about the character
Nesrin Feb 25, 2005:
I THINK it should either have been: "I'd have much rather you hadn't said that" (I would have preferred if you hadn't said that) or "I'd much rather you didn't say that" (I'd prefer if you didn't say that). There appears to be a confusion of tenses here.

Responses

+7
3 mins
Selected

I would prefer not to hear that (not to learn the news)

Probably implying "I would prefer if the bad thing had not happened"
Peer comment(s):

agree Dylan Edwards
24 mins
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agree Tanja Kaether (X)
33 mins
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agree Nesrin : The tense "I would have much rather" implies "I would have preferred..."
38 mins
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agree Patrick McKeown
40 mins
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agree Maria Chmelarova
41 mins
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agree Tony M
51 mins
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agree Alfa Trans (X)
2 days 2 hrs
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4 KudoZ points awarded for this answer. Comment: "The grammar is poor, because a very simple woman speaks - throughout the book. Thank you, Alexander! That's what context implies."
-1
1 min

I hoped you didn't say that

...that's the meaning
Peer comment(s):

disagree Tony M : ...inasmuch as the speaker's remark is not in the past tense, and the sense is not really 'hoped' but as others have said, 'would have preferred...'
51 mins
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2 mins

I know, no need to say it.

She knows what the bad news is going to be and doesn't want to hear it.
Peer comment(s):

neutral Tony M : Doesn't NECESSARILY imply she already knew...
52 mins
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6 mins

This is just one more trouble for me

:)
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+1
27 mins

extremely poor grammar

'I'd have much rather you didn't say that'
means: I would have much preferred (it) (things) had you not said that
Peer comment(s):

agree Patrick McKeown : with your remark about the grammar but maybe the author wants his/her character to speak in an affected way?
16 mins
Could be, artistic license I suppose CHeers,
neutral Tony M : It's not POOR grammar, just a certain style of spoken English that was very common amongst certain educational classes, during a certain period; the author has captured it perfectly.
28 mins
The grammar stinks Dusty "I'd have much rather?" Much rather what?
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