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én-üzenetek

English translation: I-messages / I-statements

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Hungarian term or phrase:én-üzenetek
English translation:I-messages / I-statements
Entered by: hollowman2

06:28 May 5, 2010
Hungarian to English translations [PRO]
Social Sciences - Psychology
Hungarian term or phrase: én-üzenetek
Szövegösszefüggés:
Az alábbi írás a hatékonyabb kommunikáció egy fontos eszközéről szól: az én üzenetekről. Az én üzenetek során „tényszerűen szólunk arról, hogy mi van velünk, de nem minősítjük a magatartását, nem fenyegetőzünk, nem moralizálunk.”

Néhány példa:
„Te aztán sose leszel képes leválni az anyádról! - helyett: Nagyon zavar, hogy évek óta csak beszélsz arról, hogy függetlenedsz az anyádtól.”
„Mi lenne, ha nem flörtölnél más nőkkel minden egyes bulin? - helyett: Amikor másokkal flörtölsz, az engem teljesen elbizonytalanít.”
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hollowman2
I-message
Explanation:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I-message
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Peter Longauer
Hungary
Local time: 06:26
Grading comment
Köszönöm!
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Summary of answers provided
4 +3I-message
Peter Longauer
5 +2I-statements
Éva Vajda
Summary of reference entries provided
Dr. Thomas Gordon coined the term "I message" in the 1960s
Ildiko Santana

  

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7 mins   confidence: Answerer confidence 4/5Answerer confidence 4/5 peer agreement (net): +3
I-message


Explanation:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I-message

Peter Longauer
Hungary
Local time: 06:26
Native speaker of: Hungarian
PRO pts in category: 4
Grading comment
Köszönöm!

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  Ildiko Santana: "It is helpful to avoid being critical or blaming. Assertive communication and the use of “I messages” can facilitate communication." (from 'The Psychology and Spirituality of Intimate Relationships')
15 mins
agree  amanda solymosi
3 hrs
agree  Eva Blanar
15 hrs
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7 mins   confidence: Answerer confidence 5/5 peer agreement (net): +2
I-statements


Explanation:
Pszichológiában használják gyakran.


    Reference: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I-statement
Éva Vajda
Local time: 07:26
Native speaker of: Hungarian
Notes to answerer
Asker: Köszönöm!


Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  Tamás Donát
2 hrs
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agree  John Detre
6 hrs
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Reference comments


16 hrs
Reference: Dr. Thomas Gordon coined the term "I message" in the 1960s

Reference information:
"In interpersonal communication, an I-message is an assertion about the feelings, beliefs, values etc. of the person speaking, generally expressed as a sentence beginning with the word "I", and is contrasted with a "you-message", which often begins with the word "you" and focuses on the person spoken to. Thomas Gordon coined the term "I message" in the 1960s."

"Dr. Thomas Gordon (11 March 1918 - 26 August 2002) was an American clinical psychologist, student and later colleague of Carl Rogers (with Abraham Maslow founder of the humanistic psychology). He was mainly known for his Gordon-Method, primarily a method to improve relationships between parents and children that was later developed into a general communication method to improve all relationships (also professional ones).
Dr. Gordon spent more than 50 years teaching parents, teachers and leaders the model he developed for building effective relationships. His model was based on a strong belief that the use of coercive power damages relationships. As an alternative, he taught people skills for communicating and resolving conflicts that they can use to build and maintain good relationships at home, school and at work. These skills, which include Active Listening, I-Messages and No-Lose Conflict Resolution, are now widely known and used by people around the world."


    Reference: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I-message
    Reference: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thomas_Gordon_(psychologist)
Ildiko Santana
United States
Works in field
Native speaker of: Native in HungarianHungarian, Native in EnglishEnglish
PRO pts in category: 4
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