let the big head choose her sex not the little head’s presence

English translation: Let sex be determined by choice, not by the presence (or absence) of a penis

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English term or phrase:let the big head choose her sex not the little head’s presence
Selected answer:Let sex be determined by choice, not by the presence (or absence) of a penis
Entered by: Nam Vo

07:58 Jan 21, 2017
English language (monolingual) [Non-PRO]
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English term or phrase: let the big head choose her sex not the little head’s presence
Is this a idiomatic phrase. Help, please!

Context: (introduction about a person)

The courage to stand up and prove that all synthetic drugs are incompatible with the human body.
The intrepid pluck resolution to let the big head choose her sex not the little head’s presence.
Desiré is one of the most courageous people alive today.
It is a constant battle against the small and petty minds to fight for freedom and awareness.
Nam Vo
Vietnam
Local time: 16:33
Let sex be determined by choice, not by the presence (or absence) of a penis
Explanation:
I agree with the essential point made in the previous answer, that "big head" means a person's head and "little head" means the penis, but I think the key point is "little head's presence", which means whether or not a penis is present. It doesn't mean choosing with your penis (with your animal drives); it means whether or not you were born with a penis.

So the first half means "let a person's sex be determined by their head (by what sex they decide to be/feel or believe they are)" and the second half means "don't let a person's sex be determined by whether they have a penis (by the anatomy they were born with)". This, of course, is fundamental to the whole idea of transsexualism and to the concept of sex and gender that lies behind it: they are much more than just physical anatomy.

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Note added at 5 hrs (2017-01-21 13:02:31 GMT)
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"Little head", as a way of referring to the penis, is established. "Big head" means the head, by contrast:

"little head
The penis, based on the popular myth that the little head has a one-track mind and when it is aroused it takes over a man's thinking."
http://www.definition-of.com/little head

"big head
The head, in distinction to the little head, the penis which, when in erection, seems to completely take over a man's thinking abilities and drives instinctively."
http://www.definition-of.com/big head

So "little head" is associated with the idea that men "think with their penis" instead of with their brain: that they are under the control of their sexual impulses. That's the idea JW Narins is referring to, though it's directly relevant in this context. "Big head" here means literally head, by contrast.

The quotations given on the webpages just cited, from films, include:

"(2) Jeff (Gerrit Graham) to Rudy Russo (Kurt Russell) in Used Cars (1980):
'Don't let the little head do the thinking for the big head.'

(4) Pete (Jeremy Piven) to Richard Jacks (Tim Daly) in Dr. Jekyll and Ms. Hyde (1996?):
'You're thinking with the little head. Think with the big head.'

(5) Lorenzo (Robert De Niro) to his son Calogero (Lillo Brancato) in A Bronx Tale (1993):
'Sometimes, in the heat of passion, the little head tells the big head what to do and the big head should think twice about it.'"

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Note added at 5 hrs (2017-01-21 13:05:09 GMT)
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Sorry; I meant to say "it's not directly relevant in this context", which is not to do with men's uncontrollable sexual drives taking over their thinking (as I said before). This text is simply using "little head" to mean "penis".
Selected response from:

Charles Davis
Spain
Local time: 11:33
Grading comment
Muchas gracias!!!
4 KudoZ points were awarded for this answer



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4 +7Let sex be determined by choice, not by the presence (or absence) of a penis
Charles Davis
4 +1Head, not penis (sex organ)
JW Narins


Discussion entries: 4





  

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4 mins   confidence: Answerer confidence 4/5Answerer confidence 4/5 peer agreement (net): +1
Head, not penis (sex organ)


Explanation:
Make the decision with your brain, not your animal drives

JW Narins
United States
Local time: 05:33
Works in field
Native speaker of: Native in RussianRussian, Native in EnglishEnglish
PRO pts in category: 8
Notes to answerer
Asker: Ah. Very interesting. Thank you :)


Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  Yasutomo Kanazawa
3 hrs
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1 hr   confidence: Answerer confidence 4/5Answerer confidence 4/5 peer agreement (net): +7
Let sex be determined by choice, not by the presence (or absence) of a penis


Explanation:
I agree with the essential point made in the previous answer, that "big head" means a person's head and "little head" means the penis, but I think the key point is "little head's presence", which means whether or not a penis is present. It doesn't mean choosing with your penis (with your animal drives); it means whether or not you were born with a penis.

So the first half means "let a person's sex be determined by their head (by what sex they decide to be/feel or believe they are)" and the second half means "don't let a person's sex be determined by whether they have a penis (by the anatomy they were born with)". This, of course, is fundamental to the whole idea of transsexualism and to the concept of sex and gender that lies behind it: they are much more than just physical anatomy.

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Note added at 5 hrs (2017-01-21 13:02:31 GMT)
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"Little head", as a way of referring to the penis, is established. "Big head" means the head, by contrast:

"little head
The penis, based on the popular myth that the little head has a one-track mind and when it is aroused it takes over a man's thinking."
http://www.definition-of.com/little head

"big head
The head, in distinction to the little head, the penis which, when in erection, seems to completely take over a man's thinking abilities and drives instinctively."
http://www.definition-of.com/big head

So "little head" is associated with the idea that men "think with their penis" instead of with their brain: that they are under the control of their sexual impulses. That's the idea JW Narins is referring to, though it's directly relevant in this context. "Big head" here means literally head, by contrast.

The quotations given on the webpages just cited, from films, include:

"(2) Jeff (Gerrit Graham) to Rudy Russo (Kurt Russell) in Used Cars (1980):
'Don't let the little head do the thinking for the big head.'

(4) Pete (Jeremy Piven) to Richard Jacks (Tim Daly) in Dr. Jekyll and Ms. Hyde (1996?):
'You're thinking with the little head. Think with the big head.'

(5) Lorenzo (Robert De Niro) to his son Calogero (Lillo Brancato) in A Bronx Tale (1993):
'Sometimes, in the heat of passion, the little head tells the big head what to do and the big head should think twice about it.'"

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Note added at 5 hrs (2017-01-21 13:05:09 GMT)
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Sorry; I meant to say "it's not directly relevant in this context", which is not to do with men's uncontrollable sexual drives taking over their thinking (as I said before). This text is simply using "little head" to mean "penis".

Charles Davis
Spain
Local time: 11:33
Works in field
Native speaker of: English
PRO pts in category: 572
Grading comment
Muchas gracias!!!
Notes to answerer
Asker: Thank you, Charles :)


Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  Tony M: Yes, good point! But seems rather out of place in what appears to be the source text here?
29 mins
  -> Thanks, Tony! I can only assume that among other things Desiré (lack of final e significant?) is a transsexual or a defender of transsexuals.

agree  Châu Nguyễn: with this sentence alone I also agree. Other sentences seem not related to this one somehow.
35 mins
  -> Thanks, Châu! It seems to be a series of statements about a person, and this one implies an interest in transsexualism, I think.

agree  Yasutomo Kanazawa: Deep insight.
1 hr
  -> Thank you, Yasutomo-san!

agree  Victoria Britten: Of course, that's it!
3 hrs
  -> Thanks, Victoria!

agree  Daryo: big/small head .... https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/75/29/33/752933330...
4 hrs
  -> Thanks, Daryo!

agree  Yvonne Gallagher: Yes, I think you're reading this right.
8 hrs
  -> Many thanks :)

agree  Helen Genevier
1 day 21 mins
  -> Thanks, Helen :)
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