throw someone back on my hands

English translation: throw someone back on my hands

14:25 Oct 22, 2018
English language (monolingual) [PRO]
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English term or phrase: throw someone back on my hands
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What does this mean?

"Well I didn't want him wasting his time playing the guitar. What would I want to do if I had a boy of 21? Throw him back on my hands qualified for nothing."

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marijas
Selected answer:throw someone back on my hands
Explanation:
It means that the parent doesn't want their child to waste his time playing guitar instead of studying. The parent doesn't want to have to support an unqualified 21 year old. To have someone on one's hands means having to financially support them.
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Carol OConnor (X)
France
Local time: 11:34
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SUMMARY OF ALL EXPLANATIONS PROVIDED
5 +1make him dependent on me
Ehsan Kiani
4 +1take him back home, be (financially) responsible for him
Oliver Simões
4throw someone back on my hands
Carol OConnor (X)
4Take him in and be responsible for his failure
Phoenix III


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9 mins   confidence: Answerer confidence 4/5Answerer confidence 4/5
throw someone back on my hands


Explanation:
It means that the parent doesn't want their child to waste his time playing guitar instead of studying. The parent doesn't want to have to support an unqualified 21 year old. To have someone on one's hands means having to financially support them.

Carol OConnor (X)
France
Local time: 11:34
Native speaker of: English
PRO pts in category: 8
Grading comment
Thank you.

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
neutral  B D Finch: Yes, to your second sentence, but the source text is still problematic. Who, if anyone, is doing the throwing?
2 hrs
  -> I would say society although without context I can't be sure
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8 mins   confidence: Answerer confidence 4/5Answerer confidence 4/5 peer agreement (net): +1
take him back home, be (financially) responsible for him


Explanation:
This is how I'm reading the sentence.

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Note added at 13 mins (2018-10-22 14:39:04 GMT)
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In the US, a "boy" of 21 is expected to be independent and, most likely, on his own, not living with his parents. Apparently, the parent (no pun intended) doesn't approve of him playing the guitar, probably expects him to be in a more marketable field so he doesn't depend on his parent(s).

Oliver Simões
United States
Local time: 02:34
Native speaker of: Native in PortuguesePortuguese

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  philgoddard: The phraseology may be odd, but I think the meaning is clear, and yours is the first of four similar answers.
18 hrs
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31 mins   confidence: Answerer confidence 4/5Answerer confidence 4/5
Take him in and be responsible for his failure


Explanation:
It means to indirectly support and be responsible for his failure in life. To take him back in (the house) with all it entails, (supporting him financially) instead of forcing him to pick up a career, be responsible for himself and be useful to society.
If it sounds like raising a spoiled brat... yes! :0)

Phoenix III
United States
Local time: 05:34
Works in field
Native speaker of: Native in EnglishEnglish, Native in SpanishSpanish
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2 hrs   confidence: Answerer confidence 5/5 peer agreement (net): +1
make him dependent on me


Explanation:
It's an expression. One meaning of "throw back" is "to cause to rely, make dependent".


    https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/throwback
Ehsan Kiani
Specializes in field
Native speaker of: Native in Persian (Farsi)Persian (Farsi)
PRO pts in category: 4

Peer comments on this answer (and responses from the answerer)
agree  coldspring (X): Agreed.
18 mins
  -> Thanks!
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